I don't want to give up as I think it is still the stress of the exams that is motivating her response and that given time, we could work things out and have a very special and loving relationship. I simply do NOT believe he and I will not be together after we die.
Their son grew up to become a temple president. I think in most situations its either you join or she leaves- either you, or the church.
All I can do is have Faith in Him.