The sad part is that he does not understand what I go through or if I complain or try to make him understand about what's going on at home or my feelings.
He wants me to sit around while he does his stuff. As much as I want to share his brilliance and compassion with the world, I know that once he makes that connection with someone's sick parent, it is easily hrs less of our family time, and he won't even be treating them.
Sorry you had to go through this, but it's for the best if she's about to leave on a mission.
I know it will get better over time.